Stressed November 25, 2009
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I Am officially stressed……stressssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss~
If there is miracle… please happen now.
STRESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSED
Funeral Ettiqutte November 23, 2009
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Recently, I have been asked to attend to a funeral wake.
A friend whose father had passed away. I have never meet the father before as he was working overseas all along. My deepest condolences.
But the thing is… of the so many funeral wakes I have been to…I will never know what to say when I met with the immediate family.
What If i say the wrong things?
Will i sound too cliche? cheesy? Or the family already so depressed that if i ask how did he passed away, will that rake up more sadness?
My friend will go like ” Damn!! How many times do I have to answer this question!!!?
But luckily there is internet, google this question and there are alot of model answers. E.g
The most common and sincere way of extending your sympathy is to say “I am sorry” to the bereaved for his loss. These three words are enough to convey to the grieving person that you understand the importance of the deceased person in his life and that you share his sadness. These words are enough to show that you sincerely care for the bereaved”
As they mentioned, listening is more important than doing anything at all. Studies have shown that people who suffered from loss accept their situation faster with the help of other people willing to listen. A listening ear does mush more help than you can imagine.
If you have to mentioned the deceased…use only the name and no other terms.
Nonverbal actions are acceptable like a gentle, sincere hug or gentle pat on the shoudlers. A simple gesture like this can be a source of strength for the grieving family. ( at least the one you are close to) Not going around touching their hot sisters or brothers ok~
Well, hope it helps… for those who have no choice but to go this kinda occasions.~ 
Poke Her Face November 11, 2009
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This song… again… ringing in my head~
Those who likes to strum a little here n there…Can try~
Em Cadd9 D5
I wanna hold em’ like they do in texas, please
Em Cadd9 D5
Fold em’ let em’ hit me, baby, stay with me
Em Cadd9 D5
Luck and intuition play the cards with spades to start
Em Cadd9 D5
And after she’s been hooked i’ll play the one that’s on her heart
Em C D*
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohhhh, ohh-oh-e-ohh-oh-oh
D* C D*
I’ll get her hot, show her what i’ve got
Em C D*
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohhhh, ohh-oh-e-ohh-oh-oh
D* C D*
I’ll get her hot, show her what i’ve got
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
[I wanna roll with her a hard pair we will be
A little gambling is fun when you're with me
Russian roulette is not the same without a gun
And baby when it's love, if its not rough it isn't fun]
Em C D*
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohhhh, ohh-oh-e-ohh-oh-oh
D* C D*
I’ll get her hot, show her what i’ve got
Em C D*
Oh, oh, oh, oh, ohhhh, ohh-oh-e-ohh-oh-oh
D* C D*
I’ll get her hot, show her what i’ve got
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em Cadd9 D5
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em
Can’t read my, can’t read my
C G D
No you can’t read my poker face
Em C
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
G D
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
Em C
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
G D
P-p-p-poker face, p-p-poker face
11/11 November 11, 2009
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Don’t know for some reason, I am compelled to write something today… Maybe its the date… i think i wrote something last year today also…
Nothing major happened…
Think for some absurd reasons, something is gonna happen this day, few years down the road. But I really do hope its for the better for all of us.
I have been shamelessly neglecting this blog… want to write something day in day out but i doubt there is much readers coming in to read this boring crap. Life is like a straight line for me now… looooonnnnng line… can’t see the future, where does this line ends? FUcking EMO crap…
Staying in Tuned November 6, 2009
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This past 2 weeks has been a quite a stressful one for me. For this time round, I know at least the cause of it…. WORK….
New environment AGAIN~ supposely to be better… not too far… nearer….
I will milk it til the last drop before anythg happens… make it happen!! I must to pay all the bills… I must!!!
